The safe space of the internet.

Imagine joining a community of people that get you, where conversations about identity, intimacy, and relationships are transformational.

💖 healing 💳 vetted 🙅 ad-free 🌈 queer-owned 🤩 available in your city ☂️ safer ♻️ inclusively exclusive 🪢 intersectional 🛡 troll-free 💛 friendship-first 🫀 humane 🦋 transformative 📚 educational 😊 uplifting 💎 curated 💗 wholesome 🥰 thoughtful

💖 healing 💳 vetted 🙅 ad-free 🌈 queer-owned 🤩 available in your city ☂️ safer ♻️ inclusively exclusive 🪢 intersectional 🛡 troll-free 💛 friendship-first 🫀 humane 🦋 transformative 📚 educational 😊 uplifting 💎 curated 💗 wholesome 🥰 thoughtful

Hi, it's pronounced "lovers and friends" by the way! We're a private community with a good sense of humour and strong values.

Imagine the safest space, somewhere where trolls don't exist and micro-agressions are dealt with. That's our plan!
Don't worry about your data. We're not in the business of selling it to show you ads (hi, Mark!). We sell memberships, that's it.
Explore any topics of your choice without the need to argue about who you are or how you live your life. Stay curious!
"A place to learn about all aspects of self; love and relationships in a safe space with welcoming and respectful members who support you wherever you’re at on your journey."

— Catherine (she/her)

Things we can help you with

There's this thing you want to talk about but you're not sure about opening up with your friends and the Internet is a jungle. On LVRSNFRNDS, you can start or join chats about the most intimate topics with small groups of members and in many ways: drop a post on the feed, request a live chat or write to someone who can help. Our community is kind, diverse, and non-prescriptive.
You've met someone and can't be bothered to talk for ages before you hear or read something from them that's racist, transphobic, homophobic, and so on? Share your LVRSNFRNDS link with them, they'll go through our famous vetting process and if you see them on the other side, you'll know things are heading the right way. In need of a icebreaker? Join a live chat together!
You're thinking about opening up your relationship? You're wondering whether you should have kids? You're exploring your gender identity? A loved ones has come out recently and you're a bit confused? LVRSNFRNDS is your go-to community for people who've been through this. Ask away and find inspiration to make informed decision and address any question life throws at you.
There's this munch or this party you want to go to but you're too shy to go on your own and you don't want to tell your friends about it. You don't even know if you should go or how to do with the dress code. On LVRSNFRNDS, you can get tips from our members and buddy up if you decide to go. Explore all your city has to offer for the curious in you, safely.
"LVRSNFRNDS has been my social and emotional intelligence life-saver this past year."

— Hanh (she/her)

Frequently Asked Questions

"I don’t feel a need to pretend. I feel seen and my experiences validated but I get to learn from others and create a space for other people to be heard too. I’m taking what I learn into other relationships in my life, colleagues, friends and family. More self aware."

— Grace (she/her)
"Best online community I’ve ever joined. Safe, fun, super inclusive."

— Sonia (she/her)
"Such a positive and heartwarming presence in this group! It's a judgment-free zone so you can feel vulnerable without feeling judged or unheard. LVRSNFRNDS has been a blessing for me this past few months!"

— Ashanti (she/her)
"Such an open-minded, knowledgeable and compassionate community. It's been a great way to learn from and connect to people all over the world on identity, politics, relationship styles, expression and more."

— Ge (they/them)
"LVRSNFRNDS brought so much peace and tolerance to the way I see relationships and people now."

— Samy (he/him)
"LVRSNFRNDS is a beautiful community that is constantly growing and diversifying. I suggest that you go learn and find out more!"

— Cheyenne (she/they)
"I've met some really wonderful people, grown in confidence and shone a light on areas of life I wanted to learn more about."

— Mads (she/her)
"I truly love this community. You are doing a great job at being inclusive, educational, and fun!"

— Corinne (she/her)
"Whatever the best review you can think of is, insert it here. That is how I would describe my LVRSNFRNDS experience."

— Marie (she/her)
"The most supportive, kind, inclusive and knowledgeable bunch of people I’ve ever come into contact with. Thanks for being my lifeline this past year!"

— Lois (she/her)
"LVRSNFRNDS has become my new favourite inclusive space to talk all things love, relationships, food, film, polyamory and I feel truly supported. It’s become a really important part of my life."

— Abi (she/her)
"An amazing space for amazing humans!"

— Steve (he/him)
"I wish my younger self had this amazing bunch of folks by their side growing up."

— Sophie (she/they)

Wow! You made it this far!

Something tell us you're the curious kind. We would love to see you join our community in

your city