Open discussion about sex, relationships, gender and politics is expected and encouraged. Participate with an open mind and willingness to learn. You are likely to encounter new concepts or be asked to explain concepts that are new to other members – be patient but also feel free to disengage. Negative reactions to another member’s identity or relationship style will not be tolerated and will result in your membership being revoked.
The possibility of sexual connections is one of the benefits of our community, but joining with a one-track-mind will lead to disappointment. Understand that our community is made of a diverse group of people and many of them will not be interested in you sexually. If you are not interested in someone sexually, do not be dismissive or rude to them – you can learn something from everyone.
No means no, and that includes body language. Never make unwelcome bodily contact and, if someone is not interested in you, do not pursue them. Do not assume that people consent to seeing sexual material. Keep your nudes behind the lock screen if no one has asked to see them. While our community is sex-positive, it is not sex-focused. Sexual contact that wouldn’t be appropriate in public isn’t appropriate in our community either.
If anyone has made you or anyone else feel uncomfortable, you can WhatsApp us on +447578086551. You can also report members after the event. Do not drink to the point that you cannot give consent. Drug use is strictly forbidden. Look after your fellow members: if someone appears inebriated, unhappy or isolated please inform the host so they can help them.