For people from marginalized identities, those who've been hurt, and those who love them.

We strive to transform the experience of redefining identity and relationships norms from a lonely one into one imbued by community support, personal development, and constructive social impact — one conversation at a time.

Once upon a time...

Tired of the toxic culture nurtured by social media à la Facebook, a human named Sophie imagined a space where folks interested in alternative styles of relationships could be their authentic self, learn from others and cultivate meaningful connections with strangers.

The early days.

She sifted the Internet for the curious out there who would relate to her pain, share her values, and invited them to join a social mixer with "a curious mind and no expectations". That was July 20, 2018, they were 20 in the basement of a tiny East London bar, a few months later, the community gathered 1,000+ folks and... Shit hit the fan aka the pandemic.


The pandemic had us rethink how to best serve our community of members and we gradually developed as this private social network that curious folks from all around the world can now join. We still talk about romantic and platonic relationships, intimacy but also about family, work, well-being, and pretty much anything that helps us talk our way to better lives, of all kinds.

And we hope to live curiously ever after!

Wanna join us? Check out our Academy for the concepts and skills we consider key in our community and serve our purpose.
Check out the Academy

Sounds like you?

Come hang with us.