A better way to get childfree dating & relationship advice.

Because lack of representation should not make it harder for you, LVRSNFRNDS is a diverse and safe space that provides group and 1:1 friendly chats for childfree people, their partners, and allies. Join our local community now.

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💖 healing 💳 vetted 🙅 ad-free 🌈 queer-owned 🤩 available in your city ☂️ safer ♻️ inclusively exclusive 🪢 intersectional 🛡 troll-free 💛 friendship-first 🫀 humane 🦋 transformative 📚 educational 😊 uplifting 💎 curated 💗 wholesome 🥰 thoughtful

It's not you, living childfree is not easy.

We love to bring this to you: it's not you, it's them. We live in a conventional world and your lifestyle does not fit with the narratives of "be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it". Double trouble! Number one, when you could be figuring out who you are, what you want, you're spending time educating people around you. Number two, there is not many models out there to help you figure out what it is to live childfree. The good news is: we've found a way to bring some cushiony softness into your life and it does not involve the Facebook Group.

How can we help you with childfree dating and relationships?

We're curating a safer space.

We cut the outside noise of oppression. In addition to respecting our community guidelines, people who wish to join us need to fill out a form where they are asked questions on their values & intent. We select members so—once in, you can enjoy a diverse space without the bigots, our utopia.

It's about self-discovery, but social.

Imagine engaging in conversations to get relationship advice and making new friends. This is how things work with us. We observe a friendship-first approach so you will not be bothered by people trying to hit on you but you will engage with people you'll want to be friends with, and we love this!

Our community is diverse.

We gather not only people living childfree but also their partners, and friends. We also have an important community of LGBTQIA+ folks, people of color, and non-monogamous folks. Our culture, intersectional approach, and the variety of experiences brings a lot of value to our chat rooms.

3 relationship & dating tips from our community to you.

Tip #1 - Be transparent.

Even if you're not sure, have "the talk" early on in the relationship and set realistic expectations for it so all of you are on the same page moving forward. Allow each other the possibility to change their mind.

Tip #2 - Honor your boundaries.

Reflect on your boundaries and stick to them no matter what. Don't allow anyone to undermine your life or dating choices and don't compromise your happiness and comfort for anyone else's.

Tip #3 - Invest in your support system.

Whatever you're going through, a support system to share your ups and downs will make a huge difference. Join LVRSNFRNDS and get talking. Claim a free pass now to access the chat rooms below.

"LVRSNFRNDS has been my social and emotional intelligence life-saver this past year."

— Hanh (she/her)
"I don’t feel a need to pretend. I feel seen and my experiences validated but I get to learn from others and create a space for other people to be heard too. I’m taking what I learn into other relationships in my life, colleagues, friends and family. More self aware."

— Grace (she/her)

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"Best online community I’ve ever joined. Safe, fun, super inclusive."

— Sonia (she/her)
"LVRSNFRNDS brought so much peace and tolerance to the way I see relationships and people now."

— Samy (he/him)

Friendly and personalized childfree relationship & dating advice.

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