Because lack of representation should not make it harder for you, LVRSNFRNDS is a diverse and safe space that provides group and 1:1 friendly chats for childfree people, their partners, and allies. Join our local community now.
We love to bring this to you: it's not you, it's them. We live in a conventional world and your lifestyle does not fit with the narratives of "be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it". Double trouble! Number one, when you could be figuring out who you are, what you want, you're spending time educating people around you. Number two, there is not many models out there to help you figure out what it is to live childfree. The good news is: we've found a way to bring some cushiony softness into your life and it does not involve the Facebook Group.
We cut the outside noise of oppression. In addition to respecting our community guidelines, people who wish to join us need to fill out a form where they are asked questions on their values & intent. We select members so—once in, you can enjoy a diverse space without the bigots, our utopia.
Imagine engaging in conversations to get relationship advice and making new friends. This is how things work with us. We observe a friendship-first approach so you will not be bothered by people trying to hit on you but you will engage with people you'll want to be friends with, and we love this!
We gather not only people living childfree but also their partners, and friends. We also have an important community of LGBTQIA+ folks, people of color, and non-monogamous folks. Our culture, intersectional approach, and the variety of experiences brings a lot of value to our chat rooms.
Even if you're not sure, have "the talk" early on in the relationship and set realistic expectations for it so all of you are on the same page moving forward. Allow each other the possibility to change their mind.
Reflect on your boundaries and stick to them no matter what. Don't allow anyone to undermine your life or dating choices and don't compromise your happiness and comfort for anyone else's.
Whatever you're going through, a support system to share your ups and downs will make a huge difference. Join LVRSNFRNDS and get talking. Claim a free pass now to access the chat rooms below.
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