A better way to get lesbian dating & relationship advice.

Because lack of representation should not make it harder for you, LVRSNFRNDS is a diverse and safe space that provides group and 1:1 friendly chats for lesbians and their allies. Join our local community now.

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💖 healing 💳 vetted 🙅 ad-free 🌈 queer-owned 🤩 available in your city ☂️ safer ♻️ inclusively exclusive 🪢 intersectional 🛡 troll-free 💛 friendship-first 🫀 humane 🦋 transformative 📚 educational 😊 uplifting 💎 curated 💗 wholesome 🥰 thoughtful

It's not you, lesbian relationships are not easy.

We love to bring this to you: it's not you, it's them. We live in a white cishet man's world and that means double trouble for your relationships since they do not fit with those narratives. Number one, when you could be figuring out who you are, what you want, you're probably spending time educating people around you. And we're not even talking about the bigots here. Number two, the hypersexualization that comes with lesbian love probably forces you to keep it on the low. Your relationships are not a porn tag. So the bad news is, but you know it already: it's brutal out there. The good news is: we've found a way to bring some cushiony softness into your life and it does not involve the Facebook Group.

How can we help you with lesbian dating and relationships?

We're curating a safer space.

We cut the outside noise of oppression. In addition to respecting our community guidelines, people who wish to join us need to fill out a form where they are asked questions on their values & intent. We select members so—once in, you can enjoy a diverse space without the bigots, our utopia.

It's about self-discovery, but social.

Imagine engaging in conversations to get relationship advice and making new friends. This is how things work with us. We observe a friendship-first approach so you will not be bothered by people trying to hit on you but you will engage with people you'll want to be friends with, and we love this!

Our community is diverse.

We gather not only lesbians but also their allies. We also have an important community of people of color, non-monogamous folks, folks who live child-free. Our culture, intersectional approach, and the variety of experiences brings a lot of value to our chat rooms.

3 dating & relationship tips from our community to you.

Tip #1 - Embrace your true self.

Be yourself! Don't change to fit into some stereotype or box that you think is more desirable. Genuine relationships begin with partners proudly being who they are and accepting one another.

Tip #2 - Delete Tinder.

Mainstream dating apps are polluted with couples pretending to be single women looking for women. Do yourself a favour and avoid them. Instead, check out OkCupid or independent apps like HER and Lex.

Tip #3 - Invest in your support system.

Whatever you're going through, a support system to share your ups and downs will make a huge difference. Join LVRSNFRNDS and get talking. Claim a free pass now to access the chat rooms below.

"LVRSNFRNDS has been my social and emotional intelligence life-saver this past year."

— Hanh (she/her)
"I don’t feel a need to pretend. I feel seen and my experiences validated but I get to learn from others and create a space for other people to be heard too. I’m taking what I learn into other relationships in my life, colleagues, friends and family. More self aware."

— Grace (she/her)

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"Best online community I’ve ever joined. Safe, fun, super inclusive."

— Sonia (she/her)
"LVRSNFRNDS brought so much peace and tolerance to the way I see relationships and people now."

— Samy (he/him)

Friendly and personalized lesbian dating & relationship advice.

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