It's not you, LGBTQIA+ relationships are not easy.

We love to bring this to you: it's not you, it's them. We live in a white cishet man's world and that means double trouble for our relationships since they do not fit with those narratives. Number one, when we should be figuring out who we are, what we want, we're spending time educating people around us. And we're not even talking about the bigots here. Number two, the hypersexualization that comes with that forces us to keep it on the low. Whatever we do, except maybe the ace community, there seems to be a porn tag for that. So the bad news is, but you know it already: it's brutal out there. The good news is: we've found a way to bring some cushiony softness into your life and it does not involve the Facebook Group.

How can we help you with LGBTQIA+ dating and relationships?

We're curating a safer space.

We cut the outside noise of oppression. In addition to respecting our community guidelines, people who wish to join us need to fill out a form where they are asked questions about their values and intent. We select members so once in you don't have to educate someone on why they should not act like a bigot.

It's about self-discovery, but social.

Imagine engaging in conversations to get relationship advice and making new friends. This is how things work with us. We observe a friendship-first approach so you will not be bothered by people trying to hit on you but you will engage with people you'll want to be friends with, and we love this!

Our community is diverse.

We gather not only LGBTQIA+ folks but also their partners, and allies. We also have an important community of people of color, non-monogamous folks, folks who live child-free. Our culture, intersectional approach, and the variety of experiences brings a lot of value to our chat rooms.

3 dating & relationship tips from our community to you.

Tip #1 - Know your worth.

You are lovable and desirable—and nothing about you is wrong. You deserve love so don't let your inner critic or a faulty heteronormative and cisnormative society dictate what you do or don't deserve.

Tip #2 - Get the word out.

Learn how you can better communicate your desires, boundaries, and needs. Strive to be honest and open both with yourself and with other people. Be proud of your dating styles and preferences!

Tip #3 - Invest in your support system.

Whatever you're going through, a support system to share your ups and downs will make a huge difference. Join LVRSNFRNDS and get talking. Claim a free pass now to access the chat rooms below.