A better way to get long-distance relationship advice.

Because lack of representation should not make it harder for you, LVRSNFRNDS is a safe space that provides group and 1:1 friendly chats for people in long-distance relationships and their friends. Join our local community now.

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💖 healing 💳 vetted 🙅 ad-free 🌈 queer-owned 🤩 available in your city ☂️ safer ♻️ inclusively exclusive 🪢 intersectional 🛡 troll-free 💛 friendship-first 🫀 humane 🦋 transformative 📚 educational 😊 uplifting 💎 curated 💗 wholesome 🥰 thoughtful

It's not you, long-distance relationships are not easy.

We love to bring this to you: it's not you, it's them. We live in a conventional world and your relationships do not fit with the narratives. Double trouble! Number one, when you could be figuring out who you are, what you want, you're spending time educating people around you. Number two, there is not many models out there to help you figure out how to make your long-distance relationship work. The good news is: we've found a way to bring some cushiony softness into your life and it does not involve the Facebook Group.

How can we help you with long-distance relationships?

We're curating a safer space.

We cut the outside noise of oppression. In addition to respecting our community guidelines, people who wish to join us need to fill out a form where they are asked questions about their values and intent. We select members so once in you don't have to educate someone on why they should not act like a bigot.

It's about self-discovery, but social.

Imagine engaging in conversations to get relationship advice and making new friends. This is how things work with us. We observe a friendship-first approach so you will not be bothered by people trying to hit on you but you will engage with people you'll want to be friends with, and we love this!

Our community is diverse.

We gather people in long-distance relationship and their friends. We also have an important community of people of color, LGBTQIA+ folks, others who are non-monogamous, other who live child-free. Our intersectional approach and the variety of experiences represented brings a lot of value to the dating and relationship advice you will receive.

3 long-distance relationship tips from our community to you.

Tip #1 - Keep it intimate.

Social apps are your friends to keep your communication topic-driven. Use as many as you wish! iMessage for the everyday things, WhatsApp for the sexting, Pinterest for things to do together, etc.

Tip #2 - Share the right amount for both of you.

Discuss with your partner how much each other would like to get involved into your daily lives. Use it as guidelines to share updates. All the things that a nesting partner would have access to.

Tip #3 - Invest in your support system.

Whatever you're going through, a support system to share your ups and downs will make a huge difference. Join LVRSNFRNDS and get talking. Claim a free pass now to access the chat rooms below.

"LVRSNFRNDS has been my social and emotional intelligence life-saver this past year."

— Hanh (she/her)
"I don’t feel a need to pretend. I feel seen and my experiences validated but I get to learn from others and create a space for other people to be heard too. I’m taking what I learn into other relationships in my life, colleagues, friends and family. More self aware."

— Grace (she/her)

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"Best online community I’ve ever joined. Safe, fun, super inclusive."

— Sonia (she/her)
"LVRSNFRNDS brought so much peace and tolerance to the way I see relationships and people now."

— Samy (he/him)

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