A better way to get open relationship & dating advice.

Because lack of representation should not make it harder for you, LVRSNFRNDS is a diverse and safe space that provides group and 1:1 friendly chats for people in open relationships and their friends. Join our local community now.

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💖 healing 💳 vetted 🙅 ad-free 🌈 queer-owned 🤩 available in your city ☂️ safer ♻️ inclusively exclusive 🪢 intersectional 🛡 troll-free 💛 friendship-first 🫀 humane 🦋 transformative 📚 educational 😊 uplifting 💎 curated 💗 wholesome 🥰 thoughtful

It's not you, open relationships are not easy.

We love to bring this to you: it's not you, it's them. We live in a monogamous man's world and that means double trouble for our relationships since they do not fit with those narratives. Number one, when we should be figuring out who we are, what we want, we're spending time educating people around us. And we're not even talking about the bigots here. Number two, the hypersexualization that comes with that forces us to keep it on the low. Whatever we do, there seems to be a question about how much sex we should be having. So the bad news is, but you know it already: it's brutal out there. The good news is: we've found a way to bring some cushiony softness into your life and it does not involve the Facebook Group.

How can we help you with open relationships and dating?

We're curating a safer space.

We cut the outside noise of oppression. In addition to respecting our community guidelines, people who wish to join us need to fill out a form where they are asked questions on their values & intent. We select members so—once in, you can enjoy a diverse space without the bigots, our utopia.

It's about self-discovery, but social.

Imagine engaging in conversations to get open relationship advice and making new friends. This is how things work with us. We observe a friendship-first approach so you will not be bothered by people trying to hit on you but you will engage with people you'll want to be friends with, and we love this!

Our community is diverse.

We gather not only folks in open relationships but also their partners, and friends. We also have an important community of people of color, other non-monogamous folks, folks who live child-free. Our culture, intersectional approach, and the variety of experiences brings a lot of value to our chat rooms.

3 relationship & dating tips from our community to you.

Tip #1 - Do the work.

It is important to work internally on your relationship to have a strong basis to branch from. Talk your existing issues out and address how you feel about them honestly before deciding to open up.

Tip #2 - Stay open.

Be ready to negotiate and re-negotiate the terms and services of your relationship multiple times. The perfect relationship will always be a work in progress that demands a lot of talking and re-talking.

Tip #3 - Invest in your support system.

Whatever you're going through, a support system to share your ups and downs will make a huge difference. Join LVRSNFRNDS and get talking. Claim a free pass now to access the chat rooms below.

"LVRSNFRNDS has been my social and emotional intelligence life-saver this past year."

— Hanh (she/her)
"I don’t feel a need to pretend. I feel seen and my experiences validated but I get to learn from others and create a space for other people to be heard too. I’m taking what I learn into other relationships in my life, colleagues, friends and family. More self aware."

— Grace (she/her)

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"Best online community I’ve ever joined. Safe, fun, super inclusive."

— Sonia (she/her)
"LVRSNFRNDS brought so much peace and tolerance to the way I see relationships and people now."

— Samy (he/him)

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